We live in a world that often praises hustle, immediate results, and "pushing through." This mindset, while sometimes effective in certain areas of life, can be incredibly detrimental when applied to the delicate art of nervous system regulation. Many well-intentioned individuals find themselves falling into "the regulation trap"; a cycle of forcing calm, growing impatient with the process, and ultimately giving up on practices that could profoundly benefit their well-being. I see this a lot in my work and with my clients. The truth is, attempting to force your nervous system into a state of regulation is not only ineffective; it's profoundly counterproductive. So why does forcing fail? It is actually quite paradoxical; our nervous system, specifically the Autonomic Nervous System (ANS), operates largely outside of our conscious control. It's an ancient, wise system designed for survival, constantly scanning our internal and external environment for cues of...
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